We all have questions regarding Love at some point in our lives; some of the questions that we may ask ourselves are:
What is Love? Is love defined by the way your partner looks at you? Is it defined by what they can provide for you? Is it defined by the way they make you feel? Can Love be defined? Who Defines Love?
I believe that Love is something that lands in many categories; it can be a mixer of all and more. It takes time to realize that you are in “what we call Love”. I think that Love can be when your partner makes you smile when you’re down, when they can say that everything will be alright (and you believe it). Love can be when you partner comes around after months and years of dating and your heart still skips a beat. Love can be accepting the good and bad, the ups and downs in the relationship. Love can be when you have an argument and both if you guys come together and say “I’m Sorry”.
Love is such a touchy issue because everyone expresses themselves in such a different manner. What you may want your spouse to do, they might not do, what you want them to say, they might say; but does that mean that they don’t love you? Maybe love is indefinable because your with someone and don’t really know why. The only thing you know is that you’re happy.
Is it True Love when you can point all the reasons why you love someone?
I have someone who makes me feel good inside and out, someone who is willing to go above and beyond the greatest measures to make me happy. As I too, will do the same for him. I believe that we compliment each other in such a way that the Lord has placed us together. We raise our families as one; we act as if we are one. Now don’t misunderstand me; we too have issues and arguments that most couples have. We don’t always get along; but we are not afraid to admit our wrong doings.
I believe that if you are with someone and you’re happy, then that’s all that matters because true Happiness is hard to find.
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I believe that love has many layers and it changes as your love grows stronger. Love for me is an undescrible feeling; it is knowing that no matter what, he (or she) will be there, no matter what happens or what the two of you go through. I also believe that it is the hard times that makes your love grow stronger. Love is complicated, hard, fun, joyful, and my more things rolled into one!!! Love can be one of the best things that happens in your life.
The greatest love of all is my relationship with God, and through my relationship with Him, it has taught me how to love my husband the best way that I know how.
Love encompasses everything around us. It is what binds us humans the most. It is complicated yet simple.
It is everywhere around us. And when we have it, do our lives find meaning.
Beautiful post Teekeeanna!
You have made some great points. The one thing that I can agree on is everyone love’s in a different manner. You love people back in different ways also. It’s different with every person.
There is a mystery about love that becomes clear as you walk through heartbreaks and disappointments.
There is a kind of love that flies under the radar until a woman becomes ready to open her heart to discover it.
There is a definition of love that challenges everything you thought you knew.
There is a realization about love that comes only after surviving excruciating loss.
The Answer?
Self love, self compassion and self acceptance.
It changes ones perspective radically to substitute the words “I accept you exactly how you are.” instead of “I love you.”
Try it!
Catherine